tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677656433774493646.post5451320301913866072..comments2023-05-17T01:03:11.834-07:00Comments on Diary of Bones: define "romantic relationship"Archer's Boneshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15507043334472692421noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677656433774493646.post-48506443450549179712013-10-10T18:08:01.636-07:002013-10-10T18:08:01.636-07:00Romance, "romantic" is in the eye of the...Romance, "romantic" is in the eye of the beholder. A few days ago, my Piano Man bought a figurine: "Throgh, Frog of Thunder!" He got it out of the box, showed it to me, and said, "Gods, capes, frogs, hammers, superheroes. All the things you like and I like. I thought we should have it." I grinned from ear to ear and told him, "I'm sooo going to do you, right now." <br /><br />That is our romance. Some people might be outraged by the mere idea. So I'm there with the bit about a relationship needing "to be its best self" and for the people in it to continue to be themselves while loving another. When we change in order to please others or society in general, then we end up with two divorces under our belts. <br /><br />My failed marriages had nothing to do with love dying, not at first. It was all about each of us trying to be our best for the other, and if we don't put ourselves first, all goes to crap.Magaly Guerrerohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18295455026184103230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4677656433774493646.post-67091962064000700492013-10-10T12:34:54.254-07:002013-10-10T12:34:54.254-07:00Yes.Yes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com