Usually I can look back at a relationship and see why I loved that person in the beginning, even if I don't necessarily feel so friendly to them in the end. With Husband #2, I look back and just see my own mental illness.
That kinda makes me laugh, which isn't very charitable.
That kinda makes me laugh, which isn't very charitable.
Ha ha... that about perfectly sums up my last ex as well. Some people just don't bring out the best in each other; sometimes quite the opposite, in fact. I remember why I loved him, I just know it was for all the wrong reasons (also heavily related to my mental illness.) I don't think it's uncharitable to laugh. It is what it is, better to look back and laugh about it than cry about it, right?
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